I’m a Model and here’s how to Spot Fake Friends and Expose Hypereality from Real Friends — My Insider Tips
The allure of the digital realm can lead us into a web of fake friends and frenemies. After all, in this journey called life, true friends are like precious gems that illuminate our path with sincerity and love.
As the seasons change and spring cleaning commences, it’s time to address a crucial aspect of our lives: cleaning out our friend list. It’s easier than ever to have hundreds of friends online, but the question remains: how many of them are truly there for us when we need them?
In the midst of our ever-connected world, there is a growing concern about the loneliness epidemic in the world and The rise of hyperreality, where social media and digital interactions dominating our lives, has created a landscape where virtual connections often overshadow genuine friendships.
In the glamorous world of modeling, I think it’s essential to have a keen eye for spotting genuine friends from fakes and In a world where filters and curated personas reign supreme, it’s crucial to discern between those who are genuinely interested in our well-being and those who are merely seeking their own self-interest.
So yes, it’s time to talk about sneaky frenemies who may be lurking around.
In our quest to spot fake friends and maintain genuine connections, it’s important to remember that people can change, heal, and grow. So, let’s dive into the telltale signs and subtle cues of faux friendships.
Firstly, pay close attention to what people say, especially when disguised as jokes. Slick comments and subtle digs can reveal their true intentions. As my Grandmother says, “Watch what people say in a ‘joking’ manner. Especially the slick comments.”
As I’ve grown, I’ve come to realize that not everyone is worthy of the title “friend.” I’ve learned to be cautious and maintain a certain distance. Genuine buddies are a rare find in this world of facades and hidden agendas.
Another red flag is when someone talks about their other friends and then turns around and speaks negatively about you to those same friends. It’s a clear sign of duplicity. Remember, “If they talk about other friends then they talk about you to those friends.”
I’d say “Watch the energy you get when you mention something positive in your life. If they get quiet or change the subject.”
But, here’s the catch 21, while it’s crucial to protect ourselves , let’s also hold space and empathy for those who may have been frenemies or have gone through their own healing journey.
We all have the capacity to devolve or evolve and become better versions of ourselves.
So until next time, stay chic, stay fabulous, stay fierce, stay soft and remember, it’s better to have a circle of true friends than an entourage of fakes. After all, in this journey called life, true friends are like precious gems that illuminate our path with sincerity and love.
This was written with Ai assistance and Love. 🤖💓
